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Dreams: What They Mean & Psychology Behind Them

A dream can be explained as a succession of sensations, emotions, ideas, and images that occur involuntarily in a person’s mind during certain stages of sleep. It’s not really understood what the purpose and content of dreams are, but they have certainly been the subject of religious and philosophical interest and a topic of scientific speculation throughout recorded history. Interestingly, the scientific study of dreams is known as Oneirology.

When Does Dreaming Occur?

 It’s during the REM (rapid eye movement) stage of sleep that dreams mainly occur, because this is when brain activity is high and most resembles that of being awake. It’s the continuous movements of the eyes during sleep that identifies REM sleep; however, dreams can occur during other sleep stages, but these dreams tend to be less memorable and much less vivid. (1)

The Length of Dreams

 Our dreams vary in length: they may last for just a few seconds, and they’ve been known to last for between 20 and 30 minutes. The reason why some dreamers are able to recall their dreams is because they have been woken up whilst in the REM phase of sleep.(2) On average, people have between three and five dreams each night, with some having up to seven; however most of our dreams are quickly forgotten. It seems that our dreams tend to last longer as the night progresses and, when we have a full eight-hour sleep, the majority of our dreams occur in the typical two hours of REM.

Today’s Explanation of DreamsExplanation of Dreams

 Today, many people see dreams as a connection to the unconscious mind. There are varying natures of dreams, such as exciting, frightening, melancholic, magical, adventurous, and even sexual; (3) and our dreams seem to range from normal and ordinary right through to bizarre and completely surreal. With the exception of lucid dreaming, the events that occur in our dreams are normally outside the control of the dreamer. The dreamer is self-aware during lucid dreaming. Sometimes, dreams can implant a creative thought, thus giving the dreamer a sense of inspiration. (4)

Throughout cultures and time, opinions have varied and shifted about the meaning of dreams. It seems that people generally endorse the Freudian theory of dreams, and that is that dreams reveal hidden emotions and desires. Other theories are that dreams help us in problem solving, in memory formation, or that they occur simply due to random brain activation.

Some people have a sleep disorder in which they physically act out their dreams during sleep called REM Behavior Disorder (RBD). In this case, acting out dreams can be dangerous to the individual and bed partner.

The History of Dream Interpretation
The History of Dream Interpretation

 Going back around 5000 years ago in Mesopotamia, the earliest recorded dreams were documented on clay tablets. In the Roman and Greek periods, people believed that dreams were messages sent directly from one or more deities, from deceased people, and that they were the predictors of the future. Then there were cultures that practiced dream incubation, their intention being to cultivate dreams of prophecy.

What do Dreams Mean?

What do dreams mean

In the early 1900s, Sigmund Freud wrote extensively about the theory of dreams and their interpretations. Freud believed that dreams are a manifestation of our deepest anxieties and desires, often relating to repressed childhood obsessions or memories. In addition, it was his belief that almost every dream topic, irrespective of its content, represented the release of sexual tension. In Freud’s Interpretation of Dreams 1899, he developed a psychological technique whereby dreams could be interpreted; he also devised a series of guidelines to help us understand the motives and symbols that appear in our dreams.

 

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  1. First for some background.. I am a twinless twin. My twin died in utero. We were fraternal. I know I cant say for sure whether I knew my twin was a boy or girl but I used to have vivid dreams when I was really young, about meeting a boy at a lake that looked like the shoreline of the cottage I had growing up. We looked similar. Brown hair, same unique grey\green eyes, I have a mole on the left side of my face beside my nose, his is on the opposite side of his face a bit higher up on his cheek bone. We would just sit and talk about stuff like soccer, video games, what we wanted to do when we got older. I would always notice right away that he had this hollow look on his face when hed talk about the future. Like he was putting on a strong face for me and I couldnt understand why till I was older. I felt it was my twin, nothing can describe that feeling. Like we had known eachother since the beginning of time and have always been connected, just this lifetime we're separated, idk. I had these dreams until high school and then they eventually stopped.

    Over the years, ive been struggling with mental health and just some wild occurences have been happening that I can't explain. Then suddenly last night, he came back. I had a dream that my husband, kids and I were in an airport getting ready to go on vacation. I was fuddling with my luggage & tickets when I bumped into somebody. When I looked up, to me it looked like the boy I used to talk to in my dreams when I was younger...but he looked older and some features had changed a bit from that. There was an awkward, frozen moment where we just stared at each other like we felt familiar to each other but weren't sure why. After what felt like eons, he broke the silence and apologized and offered to help me with my bag that I dropped. Our tickets were mixed and he noticed and handed me mine and took back his and mentioned something along the lines of " cant be switching those up, thats for sure! and smiled at my kids like he was taking in a good look at them and cherishing them. I thanked him and felt like I needed to say " you look familiar , do i know you?" but I didnt. Then we walked away from each other and I said "It was nice meeting you , have a safe trip! and he said you too. As soon as we got 10 ft apart from each other, it was like 3rd person view and I could see both of us stop dead in our tracks, turn on our heels and look straight back at one another. Suddenly the airport started getting busier and busier and when we realized we couldnt simply get back to one another we screamed out "TWIN" at the same time. We just kept screaming it at each other while trying to push through the airport that was filling up with people out of no where until we couldnt see each other anymore and he got pushed into a gate. I felt scared and alone for a moment and then my husband called out to me if I was ready to go and all the people disappeared and it went back to normal. I was just stunned, standing there looking around like I saw a ghost. I asked him if he had seen that man that I bumped into and he said "What man ?" and I looked back to the airport gate I last seen him get pushed into and he was standing there just staring at me and then I woke up...

    My husband believes the airport symbolizes where the physical realm and the spiritual realm meet or cross because he and I are technically on "two different planes". I'm living, they're not. He thinks maybe he was trying to reach me to show me that he's always with me no matter how far and one day our path's will cross again. The whole thing makes me extremely emotional and I agree with my husband but I need to know what else it means... I feel like I'm the only one that experiences this... I wish my twin was here, Ive always felt like something\someone important is missing. My parents also told me I did some creepy stuff as a child, like ask where my brother was(I have an older brother) only to reply "No, my other one" when they'd answer me thinking I was talking about my older brother. Its wild.. I dont know how I really feel or think about it

  2. I find myself in a vr like world but way more updated.. then I see my self in someone else's body doing 360s and no scopes on 100 bot like creatures and then some people ask if they want to ride on a lit bulb looking spaceship and I don't and after they take off I see a word in purple ish pink appear saying... ALONE and it shows me a random person who throws his stuff to a wall.. and my online friend Haden in a black room. The room I was in told me who it was by there online name so I knew immediately... and after this I was speaking with a teacher about how (the kid who threw his stuff to the ground)
    He was super good at wood work and he should let him. The teacher said no and closed the doors from a code 6 which was like a robbery to assassins breaking in. I spotted out the door too find my friend Deegan and bumped into my other online friend micheal after I saw him I was rushing past glass little boxes with people in them and doors that looked like a really fancy vending machine code pad and my mind made up something like a little Crack in the ground and people sobing because Deegan was gone but I was still running and I called Deegan and he said he was in a diner ? Again glass windows and he was a character from a game I liked named warmonger. He was walking out of the diner and the dream ended

  3. So, finally i found a site where i could write about my i-dont-know dreams hahaha anyway so, i had this dream where i was not the one who was chasing by a huge tiger! I dont know, i felt like i was just invisible that time, i was there, really i was there. I swear. Eventho we were running away from him(tiger 'coz i found out that it was a he) he didn't chased or even paid attention at me, well that was not bad at all. You guys might thinking i should be thankful, and yes i am thankful that he didn't sees me hahaha but i don't know!! I was totally confused when i woke up.

    What does it mean? I already search it but it was not what i wanted to read. It just i need something more to know. I hope u guys can help me.

  4. I had a dream I was driving on the highway with two friends (when all of a sudden police had stopped traffic) after stopping a man came and tried to stab me....fast forward and I'm (still dreaming)but now I'm on my couch, when this same person, bust through my front door, looks me directly in the eyes(and is very creepily like smiling and shaking)and stabs me in the leg, and I can literally feel myself using all my strength to try and pull his hand and the knife away and I can't. (So I wake myself up)... Now I'm crying lol, it felt so real. (comments, thoughts!?)

  5. I have three dreams in question, I written it in my notes just so I wouldn't be able to forget it.

    1. I don't think this is a dream maybe more like I was spacing out but I want to know what may have caused it.
    I was taking a bath at around midnight. I finished, wore my clothes and as I opened the door of the bathroom, I was shocked to see a lot of pale looking people all around the house, I was so scared and screamed, but after I closed my eyes, I was back at the bathroom still had shampoo on, as soon as I finished I was scared to go outside but nothing bad happened afterwards.

    2. I had a dream of me and my friends having a reunion party, and all was fun until I spoke, my friends suddenly had a worried look, one was shocked as if she seen a ghost, and then my worried friend told me that my face had cracks. I checked to see for myself using my phone and I saw my face shattering like glass and I could even see my insides...

    3. Lastly there was this one dream that felt so real, like I could feel as if I exist in that world it was like an alternate world I could think of what I wanted to do and I act accordingly. And this is the only dream that I have full recollection of, like it became part of my memory.

    My life there was really different, and days pass by as normal, I did a normal routine. I felt like it was my real world or something. I was living a life. But one day while I visited a friend's party someone accidentally pushed me over the edge, I fell from somewhere like the 7th floor of that building. I felt the pain so much pain then nothing all black. I thought I was actually dead. I was in a void for like a minute or so before finally waking up from an 18hour sleep.

    I tried to summarize everything to lessen the reading. I really want to learn about my dream and what it could represent so I don't think it would matter to put all the story here.

  6. I had a doubt about dreams..
    "If a person is thinking about us without sleeping. Do we get him/her into our dreams"??

  7. I am getting my cousin my in my dreams.Repetedly I am getting him from 3or4 times. I don't know y i am getting. He is caring alot about me in my dreams. Why am I getting him.

  8. Is there something wrong with me or is it normal. I keep having dreams of being blindfolded tied to a bed and not knowing if one person is having sex with me or many but only one at a time . I keep having this dream it doesn't scare or disturb me I'm not being hurt like brutally hit or cut . I've never just had sex with a stranger or a one night stand I'm very careful and cautious about people or places I go . The thing is in my dreams the sex gets rough and there is biting and hair pulling even making me where I can't move and very much victim like strapped down. And no matter how it seems in my dream no blood is drawn .and I seem to truly enjoy it .I'm I deep down wanting to be tied up and violated . Or what do you think. They are more frequently coming and so vivid . And seem longer and longer . What does it mean.

  9. I had a dream today where three men invaded my home, they killed the head of the household and as he was fighting them off my 2 year old son came in running to my room crying because he was scared of what he was witnessing. I don’t remember as the dream progressed but it skips to me having a big butcher knife held to the roof of my upper teeth and the main attacker saying “oh ur an angel” I grab his hand to ease the pain he’s inflicting and he processed to press the knife and says “if u keep touching me I’ll go harder...I stop and cry even louder...then my dream fast forwards to him forcing me to say “hi I’m (my name) and I like to suck **** and I want my confidence back ...hence my teeth were now destroyed.... there were two other men one Hispanic and slim and the other short and overweight... the main attacker says “ now u can’t suck **** you have to build trust ...hence my teeth were destroyed and sharp. The main attacker tells me to go to the obese guy and I start to cry even louder because my sisters were there and it was humiliating and disgusting... the slim guy says “I want to see” the while the obese man says smiling “it’s okay not now” while he sees me crying loud. The main attacker starts to slice dime sized cuts into my left arm while the slim man pinches them as he goes and I’m yelling...I woke up terrified

  10. I had a dream and apart of it is that I was walking out of a mall and was walking out of the entrance into the parking lot to find the car and then a girl about a little older than me told asked me to go over there with her. Something in my mind told me she was trying to kidnap me. I said sure and as I walked toward her a bit I tried to run away in the other direction but I couldn't. She tried grabbing me from behind but I grabbed her head and repeatedly hit her head onto the ground until it was just mush and I have no idea why I had this dream.

  11. I had a dream about annoying person like he cares for me and he likes me and it appears 2to3 times same dream

  12. I had a dream about an annoying person that he cares for me and he likes me and 2to3 times same dream as been apeard

  13. Dream is going forwards and backwards in time actually its not governed by time , i will answer to Victoria Hernandez , the visit of adead person in adream is asking for help may be her son is not getting enoug help from the family members and she is asking you if you can do some help for her son .

  14. I had a dream of my best friend that died 30 years ago came to visit me n she told me that I need to move away from my family n to call my son why did I dream that

  15. Are we in control of our dreams? While I dream some characters that are familiar to me appear but I didn't invite them. What's up with that?

  16. Ive been having nightmares for over 7 months its to the point were i just out of bed and hurt myself its my ex boyfriend im just now finding out what a narcissist is about it took me days now hes family is in my dreams my sisters boyfriend my sister died 2015 and now its someone i thought who i thought was a friend they are all bad. Please help me

  17. I dream of being in a nice house overlooking a beach staring out a window. The house is full of people I always wake up abruptly always feeling a sense of anxiousness or like i lost something. I never get many more details, and i keep getting little glimpses of this reoccurring dream randomly thruout the day

    1. do you ever feel like you can hear the people, muffled talking or laughing. and when you feel like you've lost something, do you know what it is that you've lost

  18. Hi I have the same dream at least 3 times a week if not more it's always the same dream which consists in me being hold down to my bed and I can't move and bad dreams taking me over were I want them to stop and I want to wake up but the force or whatever it is don't let me stand up from my bed I try with all my strength and then I feel it leting me go.something remembering something of the dream sometimes not.if you can explain or help in any way I would be much appreciated.

  19. I have weird dreams that concern me... that’s not important right now. What IS important is that I’m worried for my friend. She’s having dreams recurring dreams of her boyfriend either vaping or gaming with another girl and then when she confronts him about it, he yells at her and then she wakes up hyperventilating. As time goes on, they get worse and worse. It started out as an argument out of the blue, but then it went to vaping and then cheating on her with another girl. From the looks of it, she’s really scared and worried about her relationship. I’m no expert at dream psychology so I really want to know what this one means. Is there anyone that can help me out with this?

    1. i'm going through similar dreams myself. about my closest loved ones betraying me or finding someone better. but don't worry. your friend is possibly scared of being hurt or alone. everyone goes through this at some point in their life. it doesn't mean it will come true. don't let your anxiety control your fears and turn them into your unconscious thoughts.

  20. I have strange dreams. Often, I will never have them, and sometimes, I do. My earliest dreams that I remember were nightmares; One in which felt so real that I had believed I went to school and gotten nearly swarmed there by students (slowly walking towards me in a creepy, surrounding manner), and one that felt so real I'm not sure it was a dream (involving the ghostly skeleton of my dad walking towards me with red eyes and a gaping jaw, as well as the ghostly skeleton of my mother waking up. This took place in my house after I thought I went to sleep at the bottom of the stairs). After that, no more dreams. I would daydream, and those were like a story I'd write--I controlled them, in a way. However, when I had actual dreams that I remembered, even partially, they were either strange, nightmares, or strange nightmares. One was about Valentine's Day, was my first gory nightmare, and coincidentally, I had it the night before Valentine's Day. In a few, a crooked tower shows at the end, and in one I had a dog boss. These dreams vary, and rarely ever happen. The latest one I've had that I remember clearly, I was in a camp with friends, and before that, I was in the backseat of a car, trying to hug my friend who was in the front seat. The seat separated us, however. I'd like to know what all of these really mean, and why I'm not really in control. I never am. I want to understand a bit, you could say. Is there anyone that'll help?

  21. My dream is watching a overweight labrador dog on a small ledge over a canal with a massive crocodile lurking in the water

  22. I always dream of a person who has broken my heart.in my dream he always wanted.To contact with me why did he loves me

  23. Can you tell why I can't concentrate on studies because of dreams? As thoughts are always revolving in brain due to dreams.

  24. Every night I dream, and when I woke up in morning it feels like I can't get enough clear minded sleep. While sleeping also, my brain works and because of that I am not able to get healthy and proper sleep. After waking up in morning, I still feel sleepy after sleeping 8 hours and also if I sleep for 10 minutes then also I'm dreaming. So, can you please tell why it happening??? Why I am not getting proper sleeping??

  25. Your dreams are never about the person who is in the dream. It is your minds way of working on it's problems. Dreams are always exaggerated reality. For instance, You may dream of dying when actually in reality you have just moved or changed jobs. There is a great book called creative dreaming. It tells you how to go back and remember your dreams. It works. The dream people, the Senoi of Malaysia are very interesting. They are a tribe of 10,000 who from infancy learn how to relate with their dreams. I believe the author's name is Patricia Shaw, but I am not exactly sure of the last name.

  26. I dream frequently about airports and missing flights because I get lost or stop to eat even though I know it jeopardizes making my flight. Also, I dream frequently about being in plane crashes in which no one gets hurt or that the airplane is flying low over a freeway. When there is a crash the impact is very soft and slow.

  27. My husband and I had 28 yrs, he passed away 11/2 yrs ago, we were very happy.
    How ever I have been plagued with nightmares since he died. Of him not wanting to be with me, cold and unfeeling. I dont want to sleep because of it.

  28. Ok so I was on a walk with some people, a family who I think I know but I can't remember their faces. We're walking up a muddy hill and picking up cutlery. Then we are in a church but I'm not with the family I'm with what I think we're my friends and this woman is setting jelly beans on fire and throwing them at us, but it's only the blue and black ones. Then she throws a bomb at me but an old friend who I have a long history with moves me out of the way, later in making a coffee with them and we are going to get a shower... together
    It felt so real and is really want to knoe if it means anything even the slightest detail.

  29. can you help me with my dream it was about me swimming in a giant body of water and on the shore there was trees dark green spruce trees and there were two deer and a doe the water was choppy but no white caps and im not sure what it mean

  30. Hi can you please help me, I'm always dreaming my boyfriend together with someone else he's happy no they were happy the worst thing is im always around whenever that sitauations happening. I'm confused because my boyfriend and I were happy and hes always showing me he will never do that and telling me it will never happen. But every time I woke up dreaming him with someone else's arm makes me feel pain.We are Long distances relationship from the very beginning, because he's a seaman.. however he is so kind and sweet and we always had a communications as indaily were having a video call.

  31. I got in trouble over the summer and I homeschool now. My parents don't let me talk to anyone. I've been having dreams where I throw a party and invite a bunch of people from my old school. My dream even has events in it that are happening within the week. They always leave me waking up confused and sad overall.

    1. Hi can u tell me what this means ...when I'm sleeping I can feel my duvet being moved of me or someone or something is at my shoulder fixing the duvet,it has scared me every nite b4 I go to bed...how can I get it to stop has happened 3 times did week.

  32. Hi, so I keep having this dream of making it out with one of the guys at my school. the weird thing is that we are not even friends and he low key hates me. I want them to stop but also want to know what it means, and why the only guy that hates. I am dreaming of.?

  33. For some reason i dream about a game thats called Glory of generals pacific and i am a general then some of my allies were some of my friends and we were americans then the japanese were some of my other friends.Can you explain my dream or does it have no meaning

    1. Hi , I had this weird dream just yesterday and ever since I have been going through the scene trying to memorize it but yet I still get lost at the middle, in my dream I saw myself in heaven and i saw God too, he welcomed me and scored me but then he told me to go back to EARTH and payback people I was owing and i collected some edible flowers etc.. but am owing nobody and that's exactly where am confused am like did i actually die and resurrected? or was that just a dream. pls I need an answer!

  34. I have been having these dreams over and over for about 2 weeks and was wondering if someone could tell me if they know what it means. So I am in this video game with my friends from my old school that I recently moved away from, and the video game is kind of a hide and seek sort of layout and when someone was caught ( This is how I knew I was in a game ) there was a game over. The seeker was a "Spider Person" I don't really know how to describe it. My best friend was caught by the seeker and I really didn't do anything, I just stood there. Eventually I make it out not really thinking about anyone else and the last thing I saw was the seeker almost congratulating me for my escape, like a smile and a wave, and I wake up after that normally, just confused.

    1. I have thought that this may indicate that you are helping the "Spider Person" to catch your best friend.This can be a danger to your best friend . this only a though please don't completely rely on this.

    2. Okay hi so I'm just someone whoes interested and to be honest I'm probably not 100% sure but .. so I think your dream is the way it is because u either feel as if your not being a true friend and feel guilty about something to do with ur friend or in general. Or it might be just signaling a need of seperation and just maybe u need to let go of ur old friends and try and seek new ones in as u have moved recently. And as for the seeker congratualting u maybe its ur own sub concious saying to "break free" and let go and leave (btw.. idk honestly just a wild guess.)

    1. when a girl loves someone she dreams of him a lot
      my sister was in love with someone and she used to dream of him at least 3 times a week

  35. I don't see dreams that often.Some of my dreams are predictors of the near future (up to 6 months future). Some of them are just from thinks or things that we discuss in the last week through the day before we sleep. Some of my dreams that I don't remember well are just nothing it means that the scientist are a proofing. Usually the dreams that you remember very well after you wake up have the meaning. And as you are saying not all dreams are base on brain activation. I am a big politician but I have never seen any politician dream or sexy dream or religious or whatever. I wish your space to comment in here will be larger at same time being larger will be boring to read from readers.

  36. No not always,bt those wishes which are being repressed or which are left unfulfilled they reveal those wishes in dreams

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